Ways to set a romantic mood for having sex for the first time in a relationship

Romance (in this scenario) is all about transcending the shallower physical aspects of attraction and putting
forth more than is expected to convey the notion that the evening isn't exclusively about the ol' in-out, in-out. This isn't as complicated as you think it is. The general idea here is to go out of your way to create a memorable occasion. Keep this in mind.

First, you'll need a way to start the evening off. Dinner's not a bad idea. Does your partner like fancy restaurants? How about a home-cooked meal? Got any skills in the kitchen?

Next you'll want to find an activity you and your partner both enjoy and then go do that. Have fun. Laugh. "Romance" doesn't equal "boring".

Now you're ready to slow things down a little bit. A long walk in a quiet, scenic area is never a bad choice, especially if there are places along the way where you can sit down and share some private moments. But hey, maybe your partner has a peg leg. Anything that puts the two of you alone together outside of the bedroom will work.

And now for the finale. Your adventures finally lead you back to the "love nest". Take some time here. Don't go straight from the front door to the bedroom. Maybe have a couple drinks or a cup of coffee. Listen to some music while you share intimate secrets or just sit around staring at each other. It doesn't matter. Just take your time.

That's where I'm leaving off. I think you can take it from there. Just remember that the key to this whole night is your attitude and behavior. Candles, slow music, flowers, and scented oils aren't what makes the mood a romantic one. Treat your partner like they're the most important person on the planet. That's romance.