Let's talk about sex or not?

"Sex is sacred," intoned Paris Hilton after declaring to the world she would be celibate for an entire year. (Could have fooled us.)

And when asked by reporters to spill the beans on her active sex life? "I like to kiss, but that's it," she said. "I don't go home with anyone. I sleep with my animals, like my baby monkey, Brigitte Bardot."
True, sex might be sacred, but looking at the number of people blabbing on about the intimate details of their bedroom antics, you wouldn't know it. In fact these days it's impossible to jog on a treadmill or buy a tub of toothpaste without overhearing a bunch of chicks jabbering on about their bedroom prowess; where they put their legs, what they wore (or didn't wear) and what they said the following morning.
Heck, there's even a new literary genre that's causing chick-lit to roll on its side and curl up, leaving room for fearless femmes to spill sordid details in the form of tell-all sex blogs.
Now I'm no prude, but when the intricacies of everything from Brazilian waxes to the anatomy of Brazilian men is described in such majestic detail that you feel as if you're right in bed with them, I wonder if it's really appropriate to be kissing and telling the world in such whopping proportions ...

The sex is grittier, the details deeper and the men more frequent.  Kiss and telling has gone beyond the point of "what goes on in the bedroom, stays in the bedroom," and has come right out of the closet and into full view of the entire world. Apparently, if you're looking to get some dosh, spilling the sordid details might not be such a bad idea after all.

While I'm not so sure about the merits of spilling the beans of your sexual antics to the world's media, sexologists reckon that simply talking about it to your mates actually does wonders in the bedroom! Women who talk about their sex lives with other women stand a better chance of being able to reach orgasm than those who don't. And apparently we need all the help we can get. The CNN story reveals that only one in four women actually has an orgasm, while a third rarely ever do! Perhaps that's why so many modern femmes aren't holding back when it comes to spreading the word about spreading their legs.

Especially on a blog. Who said we're talking too much about sex? Certainly not me ...