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Monday, February 1, 2010

Spending Valentine's Day Alone


If you are in a committed relationship and your partner is away or you just don't have a date for Valentine's Day and spending this day alone, for some people can be quite sad. It mainly affect women as women are likely to dwell on why they are alone on this day but in many cases men will feel the same and wish that they had someone to share this day with. But spending that day alone does not necessarily have to be a sad day. This will look at some tips and pointers on how to have fun on Valentine's Day if you are spending it alone.

If you are in a long distance relationship you will often find yourself spending such days as birthday's anniversaries, Valentine's Day away from your partner. But when you are in such situation you are likely to realize that these situations are unavoidable. For example if you and your partner live in different towns because of work and only see each other on weekends, it is quite likely that you will spend Valentine's day alone if it falls on a weekday. But remember in such situations there are a number of ways you can make this day seem special. If you know that you are going to be alone on Valentine's Day try to book as many activities into it as possible come up with anything you want just make sure you are busy all day long this way the time will fly and you will not have time to dwell about being alone. Another thing you can do is make plans for that time when you are going to be together with your partner so you have something to look forward to. You still might be alone on valentine's day but knowing that you will celebrate it a bit later will make the day feel less sad and will also help you feel less lonely.

In case you spending Valentine's Day alone because you are not in a relationship you can still have good time. One of the ways to do it is to get a few good movies and order some takeaways from a good restaurant. You should try to order something you always wanted to try but never got a chance to. This will make your day more exciting and it will feel special as well. Remember that just because you are alone it does not mean at all that you cannot have a great day and evening by yourself.

Also you may have friends who are single as well, you may consider getting together with them and having a night out or a nice dinner. If you have a number of single friends you may want to organise a singles party and get your friends to invite their single friends as well. By doing so you may even end up meeting someone, but if you don't you still will have a great time and the day will not feel sad at all.

And the last thing, if you are alone this Valentine's Day it is really important to remember that this does not mean that you will be always alone. One biggest mistake single people do is they often spend too much time thinking about why they alone on this day. It is important to know that being alone on Valentine's Day is not the end of the world. Do something for yourself, treat yourself for a nice dinner or even a short holiday just keep yourself busy and remember just because you single now your life should not stop and you will not be single forever. So get up and go do something for yourself.

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