Valentine’s Day is the day to express love and affection for that special someone in your life. Your goal should be to make him/her feel special on this day. Yes, gifts do count but remember these are no match for your attention and love. Romantics all over the world wait for this day and some of them manage to spoil it all by making mistakes that silly yet grave. They somehow manage to wrap it up by the 15th of February. Well, for those who don’t want to face similar consequences we have some suggestions for you…suggestions for what not to do on Valentine’s Day.
Do not forget the day: This is the gravest mistake you can make. If required mark it on your calendar or set an alarm…do not forget Valentine’s Day. Remember, your partner is looking forward to your special plans for the day…forgetting it will spoil it all!
Expect Little: The key to be happy is to keep your expectations under control. Don’t expect your valentine to take you to a holiday or get you diamonds…you might end up being disappointed. This will also embarrass your partner and you would definitely not want that.
Do not run into a debt: All your partner wants is your undivided attention and love. Don’t go bankrupt to get her a gift. Gifts are important but you should set your budget first.
Do not compare: You friend might have a multi-millionaire for a boyfriend and he might be showering her with diamonds and taking her to foreign trips…learn to value what you have. Remember, the person you are with is in love with you and cares for you…what can be a better gift than that! Learn to be satisfied.
No rings please! : Do not gift her ring on Valentine’s Day if you are not willing to take matters forward with her. This might send across the wrong message and lead to expectations which on the long run spoil the relationship.
Be Innovative: Don’t just buy a card or a gift for your partner…the whole world does it for gods’ sake! Try to make it special for him/her. Make him/her a card or a write a poem …this is far better than just being another guy!
Be thoughtful: Do not take her for an action film or scuba diving if she doesn’t like it. Be a little thoughtful and plan things together to suit both of you.
Try avoiding parties: Valentine’s Day is not the right time to show your partner how good a drinker you are or how popular are you with other girls/boys. It is the day for both of you, so try to make it special for your partner.
Do not bring along a company: Your partner might be looking forward to spend some time with you alone. Do not spoil the mood by bringing along an uninvited guest with you.
Last but not the least, DO NOT FIGHT on Valentine’s Day. Save it for later. This is supposed to be the day for romance not fights.
Yeah right. rings should not be given this valentines day. it just might make your partner expect more to you. Surprise her with flowers and chocolates, nothing beats the sweetness of receiving such gifts, check this sweet and special valentines gift you can give on Feb. 14, these are affordable and very romantic stuffs.
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